Girls and Guys - I need advice!!

Hi everyone!! I just need some boy help!!

There is this really cute guy I like at school, but he already got a girlfriend, so I was wondering, what should I do?? Use the poll or leave a comment, or do both!! But guys and gals, PLEASE tell me what to do!!!! And also, I really like his girlfriend, she is so nice so I can't hate her for it!!

*Edit*

I HAVE been out with him but it was all VERY complicated. And today went from being the best day in the entire world, to being the worst EVER. This is what happened:

Lewis's GF dumped him this morning. As soon as they found out all my mates told him that I wanted to go out with him, which was true, but it would have seemed REALLY kinda bitchy if I had have asked him out as soon as he was dumped, so i didn't want to ask him.

THEN he said that if i asked him out in person then he would say yes, but I am a REALLY shy girl and i just couldn't get the words out and everyone was pressurizing me bt i just couldn't do it so then i got upset and ran off.

Then HE asked me out and i said yes, and I was SO happy (That was the best day of my life bit) but then his GF (who had said it was okay for me to go out with him earlier) then got really upset so i told the guy that i would go out with him in a week or so 'coz then my mate would have had time to think it over and stuff, but then i realized i was just being stupid and she was just being selfish/mean so i got sum1 2 ask him out 4 me (AGAIN) and he said he would think bout it.

Then all my mates kept asking him then he said No

And i don't think he will change his mind but it is just not right. 'coz i luv him so much but now it looks like i will never have the chance to go out with him.

But the thing is, he actually liked me. And I liked him but now everything is ruined.

I am SO upset now

iz

*********ANOTHER EDIT!!*********

He asked me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I said yes of course, and everything worked out great apart from one horrible girl who is calling a me *nasty word*.

iz

Just be friends with him, then move closer!

I've got the perfect advice! but it depends on what you mean.

If they both like each other, then it's gonna be a LITTLE bit harder. you could just say that you like him and if his reaction is good, then you'll be good, if his reaction is bad, then you could say:

"Well, we could just be plain friends."

Well, that would be if you would be fine with that yourself! Of course, if a boy wouldn't want to be my boyfriend, and he offers to just be my friend, I would be fine with that. I mean, if not, maybe you'll start connecting!

My plan for shorty:

Become friends,get phone number,get closer:)

haha suckish I know

Ok, I am now friends with him, and I have kinda flirted with him a bit today, but not much. I also found out that I am in his math group as well, so that is great, I sit next to him in quite a lot of subjects as well, so should I try the "Oooops I dropped my pencil" routine with him?? Or should I "accidentally" bump into him?? Or maybe smile at him loads??

You see the problem is, I am quite shy, so I don't want to ask him out, or tell him I like him, because I am too shy!!!! So I really don't know what to do!!!

Any help welcome,

iz

This is one I use a lot when I am next to this one guy. Play with your hair?? Is it long? If it is, pull it to his side adn twirl it, it will distract him, then say , OMG I am so sorry. Smile, then look a way, but keep on eye on him!

No, no no! Guys know those things. Think of what he likes and try to get him something.

I put this in another one by Lauren.

Just try to get to know him as a friend.

and anyway... Remember: most likely nothing will come of it. Don't go into it with your goal to be his GF. Go into it as a FRIEND.

The whole GF, BF thing makes people uneasy and embarrassed, so dont go into it like that.

You don't NEED to be his GF. there is NOTHING wrong with being friends.

Yes, thats perfedt asdvice!

I think theres a glitch. I can't see your stuff!

Ok, I have news. His GF managed to get it out of me that I like him and then she told him. He knows I like him, and He hasn't spoken to me for the rest of the day. What should I do???????? Please help me!!!!!!!!!!



iz

lay low, let him come to you!

sheesh.

sorry but that's really like ug!!


i wanna see if this guy works :mrgreen:

No, it doesn't work! Now...thats just harsh not. Justlay back the love thing for a while. I mean, it's only the beginning of the school year. Wait till...mmm the middle. Then try to act normal and try to become friends.

ok, that is what I do, and it always works!

YAY!

Ok, none of this matter anymore. I have dumped him

Because everyone was bugging me/us, so we are no longer together

I wish we were, but five minutes after i ended it, asked another girl out, and so I will never have another chance with him.

And his new GF who pretended to be my friend, was only doing it to get close to him.

MISS U LEWIS 4 EVA LUV UU

iz